I have found that most people tend to judge or make judgmental statements really out of ignorance of seeing what is true in the moment. Your perseverance in your position shows that you consider all aspects, as perhaps the lack of perseverance in the girl's position shows what she might not have known in reality. I hope this make sense.

Green is very relaxing and is the color with the most shades--over 350 of them, in fact! It's great that you have created your own oasis to enjoy the beauty of it.
Thank you for sharing and have a lovely day! 🤗🌹❤️ !LADY