In life, we make acquaintances every day that could become potentially valuable. However, most times, 90% of these acquaintances die a futile death, while 10% become usable. The reason is that most people hide their intentions with initial goodwill, and if you're wise enough, you'll be able to detect this. In reality, there's nothing wrong with having Short term people in your life. The plumber, the groceries lady, the next-door neighbor, your landlord or people you meet at random events are short-termed people, this is because you create a relationship with them because it's visibly beneficial for the two parties. For you to pay the groceries lady, you need to agree to do business.
Here's something you should ponder on:
Sometimes most relationships that should be a one-time thing escalate into something deeper, however, it depends on the compatibility of two or more people to make this work. If there's an insane understanding between two people who go into business, there's no doubt they'd want to replicate it. This is because building permanent business relationships in place of short-term business relationships, would create a mutuality that's generally rewarding, howbeit, this is dependent on understanding and intention.
One of the reasons why people don't work is because they have contrasting intentions.
A person who is willing to go overseas cannot build a business with a person who is willing to build and establish in their native country and it has nothing with MR A or B being a bad person.
Intentions do not make people bad, rather it changes your longevity plans with them.
Some women want rich men for marriage, some want men that they could build a life. The present condition of a person determines which of these two women they're automatically matched with. It doesn't mean any of them are bad, intentions of people change the narrative, but one habitual pattern of a human being is that good people can mask bad intentions with a good approach, and this is because sometimes one's bad intentions might not be a 100% representation of who they truly are. But in life, almost everyone is guilty of this, "once beaten, twice shy syndrome" and this is because no one has the time to check if people are good or not, it the first impression is bad, then it's a goodbye to anything that could potentially be accomplished in such relationships.
Compatibility of intentions should be the most important goal in life especially when it comes to building a business
Sometimes, good people made profitable deals with bad people because the endgame is profit.
While this is good, sometimes we need things in life that exceed their ephemeral advantages, to truly succeed. Now, we might like or want people, but they might not be the best for us. Sometimes we're conflicted with the things we truly need because they do not initially thrill us. I believe that utility creates or establishes solidity. The people with the most utility in our lives are the people who we are most drawn to rather than people whose use-case are mostly expendable. But this can be totally selfish.
In life, we need to let people feel our importance as much as we want to feel their importance, since this wouldn't make you rich, it might in the long run. A lot of people become business partners with people who they think they know. At the end of the day, they end up getting fucked.
Why?
When we completely fail to read them and understand the intentions of people over time, then we've hit a snag and completely failed in a particular aspect of life. There was someone who made it their business to make and establish me, but I messed it up because I was young and inexperienced. I've tried to atone for this for a long time, but they feel I'll never change, but I did, they just didn't give me a chance to prove this.
This doesn't mean I won't keep trying because losing people is something no one should aim to do in life. Let's be factual, there's nothing as people with the purest of intentions. Sometimes I randomly talk to people to test my longevity instincts on them, while this is selfish (and I aim to stop) it broadens my knowledge of the anatomy of the human mind; our wants needs, cravings, or even desires.
I'm a person with a clear intention. My passion for longevity is crazy.
I don't know if this might be consequential
Sometimes it goes overboard, but I try to keep it in check. One thing I realize is, that we often conflict good people with intentional people. Good people are the ones with a spontaneously good heart. But intentional people might not be. While you need the former, generally you also need the latter to be specific, but the best is having the two packages all in one person which can be completely difficult because life's priorities can make good people unintentional.
All in all
......it's great to play the longevity game because sometimes we completely underestimate how much we can achieve by playing this game. At the end of the day, it's important to do "you". This means being unencumbered with potential mistakes, mildly fearing the consequences of these mistakes as expected but don't be petrified of them, relishing the lessons, and hoping life give you another chance.
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