I am someone who loves watching movies, and as I have learned in movies, there is a thing called "Love At First Sight". I keep wondering how the chemistry gets developed from just seeing a person. I was made to believe that I could hit a person, then drop off her items, then pick up the items together, and as we get up, we rise looking into each other's eyes, fall in love, and then live happily ever after.
This whole scenario is what I was made to believe in movies, but the truth is that life does not happen like that. And I don't think everything they tell in movies is true, just like the way people dodge bullets in movies and having a man beat up 15 armed men while being unarmed. They are all lies to create a sense of entertainment for us, as we have a need to see something different and out of the ordinary.
Not to drive too much away from my main topic of discussion, I don't believe in Love At First Sight. I believe that Love takes time to build. It takes me more than liking your physical appearance to be able to sacrifice anything for you, unless I am doing it due to my kind nature.
Although it is possible to get attracted to someone at first sight due to how beautiful or handsome the person may be, This should not be counted as love; this is mere infatuation or crush, as it is based on just the physical appearance of the body.
As I said earlier, Love is built over time. It goes way deeper than just being attracted; it involves actually caring about a person's state of being, understanding and respecting the person even when knowing their flaws. It goes as deep as having an emotional connection to be able to share joys and sorrows, supporting each other through thick and thin. Not just when things are alright for you or the person.
Anything that does not involve all these is certainly not love. It is mere infatuation or just based on Crush. Although these feelings have the capability of leading to Love after some time spent knowing the person, this certainly proves the point that Love At First Sight is certainly not a thing.
𝙰𝙱𝙾𝚄𝚃 𝚃𝙷𝙴 𝙰𝚄𝚃𝙷𝙾𝚁
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