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When we are young we think about a lot of things like how our future will be and what we will do and we think about such things and we think that we will earn a lot of money and buy a lot of things and roam here and there but as we grow up we realize the reality that things are not like what we are told in childhood or we imagine. Life is very different from what we think and this is the reality of life also. Because life is very unpredictable and mysterious in a way because you do not know what is going to happen next moment. We all do planning and many people are honest but not everyone plans are successful and this is not a surprising thing.
So it seems to me that everyone has a different opinion, some people are very short-sighted and they go ahead thinking of years, some parents are also very much of the type, they are very much concerned about the future of their children and they think that what should our child do so that he does not face any problem in the future and he gets a job easily. Businessmen often send their children to good schools and then make them shareholders in their business or hand over their entire business to them. So, everyone has a different opinion and things are done based on that.
The moment you enter secondary school, you will start receiving this common question, like, "What do you want to study at the university?" Then when you finally enter uni, they will still ask what your plans are after graduation. Then you graduate, and people from nowhere will start bombarding you with questions about job placement, marriage, children, houses, cars, you name it...like the pressure is just uncalled for, and if care is not taken, you will be living according to society's timetable, lol.
Honestly, I want to know if it's really fair for such heavy expectations from people to figure out their entire life at such a young age. A teenager who doesn't even know what life is all about is expected to choose his career at a young age. Imagine asking a 16-year-old boy what he wants to study...when such a person gets a bit older, let's say 20, he might have a rethink because he knows better.
Perhaps there is a certain sense of obligation in the air: what are you going to do, what are you going to become, what path are you going to take? In some way, we all plan our path, even from an early age. Don't we constantly ask children what they want to be when they grow up? Perhaps, through indirect pressure, we all feel that we need to make a decision about this. But does it really have to be done as early as possible, even before our understanding or maturity is fully developed?
Of course, the earlier we plan something, the greater the chances that it will work out. You have more time to find the best path, perhaps the best strategy, and prepare yourself. But starting earlier also means that we may not yet have a clear understanding of what we want to do with our lives, which means there is a greater chance of making mistakes.
But what if we take too long to make a decision? Time passes quickly and, before you know it, you are already older, perhaps without the same energy, having tried a few things and maybe given up along the way. Well, it is really complicated. We cannot make any definitive statement about this.
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