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Some women do harrasse or Violet the innocency of some men. Not only our menfolk do harrasse the opposite sex. Some women that has a complete negative mindset and an incurable ulterior motives, I mean those grown women that had already sold out their human hearts and emotions to the devil are into the business of sending youths, younger girls abroad to for attentions from some both innocent men, and some men of such lifestyle too for money.There is a major flaw in the way society discusses clothing, boundaries, and so-called "wrong intentions." Whenever someone faces harassment or an assault, the first and most instinctive question often asked is, "What were they wearing?" It is as if a piece of clothing holds enough power to drive someone to decide to harm another person.
To understand how hollow this argument is, we need only look at children. What were they wearing when their boundaries were violated? School uniforms, or simple t-shirts and jeans. They are often too young to even grasp the significance of their own clothing. It is not just girls; boys, too, fall victim to abuse and harassment.
If clothing were truly the cause of someone's malicious intent or wrong motives, how would we explain such incidents involving children.The problem lies not in the clothing, but in people's mindset and behavior.Yes, it is possible to be attracted to someone based on their attire; one's attention might be drawn to their appearance. However, there is a vast difference between simply noticing someone's clothing and mistreating them.
We cannot control the thoughts that arise in our minds, but we are responsible for our actions based on those thoughts. This is why I believe the way we talk about these issues needs to change.In society, girls are often told and taught: don't wear certain clothes,don't go out alone at night. Worry about what people will think. But how often do we teach someone to respect another person's boundaries?
Controlling one's own thoughts and impulses is one's own responsibility. Clothing can be a part of someone's personality, culture, or comfort; but since when does clothing imply consent? And clothing cannot serve as an excuse for someone else's misconduct. Perhaps the question shouldn't be, "What was she wearing?" Instead, the focus should be on the flawed mindset of the person who committed the wrong act.
After all, if it were possible to control someone's malicious intentions simply through one's choice of clothing, children would never become victims.Our responsibility lies solely in controlling our own thoughts; it is not our responsibility to dictate what others should or should not wear.
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