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Jealousy can be love, and it can be insecurity too; it just depends.I happen to be a jealous person, yeah, and I won't even lie; it's just that I'm not overly jealous. And there's no way someone would tell me they're not the jealous type either, except if such a person doesn't have a thing or someone that they truly cherish and genuinely care about.
When you love someone, you will naturally feel the need to protect them and stand up for them, and, for example, when you're in a relationship and you find someone else, most especially the other gender, getting too close to your partner, it is just so normal for you to feel uncomfortable because that person is your lover and someone you really value.
And that is jealousy doing its thing there.I feel that the feeling of jealousy changes with age. In our younger years this feeling is stronger. If our best friend talks to some one we feel jealous, if our spouse gets friendly with someone we feel jealous, if someone in office is getting more appreciation then us then we feel jealous. But I really feel that as we age these feelings start getting lesser.
True jealousy is a feeling that comes from insecurity. The insecurity we feel of losing our close people, or the insecurity of other people moving ahead of us in life and we being left behind. The jealousy of someone being better then us. All of these feeling crop up from insecurities and lack of self-esteem and self-confidence that we have.If she would plan anything without my knowledge I would not like it.
At that point of time in my life I did not have many friends. She was the one I was very close to, and I did not want to lose her. I was never jealous about hubby talking to other girls and getting friendly but I was jealous when my bestie would get close to other people. It was a new friendship, still building and both of us had our insecurities in our relationship.
As years went by we came to an understanding that no matter what we are both important for each other. People will come and go from our life but we both will always be there for each other. When this feeling sinked in completely, the feeling of jealousy also faded out.
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