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Our experiences and other people's experiences form our belief system, and if we must really survive in this world, we need to stand strong on what we believe in, be it right or wrong. A lot of people might not agree with this. I have in the past had disagreements with my family over topics like this because to them it is simple, what is right is right, and what is wrong is wrong, but I know with the experiences I have had that it is not entirely true.
There are some people who do not do any kind of things. I consider myself very lucky and I am also proud of myself that I never got caught in all these things. But I would not call myself an ideal person at all. Look, everyone has shortcomings. I also do some things which I may not do in comparison to all of you, but look, everyone has some shortcomings and hardly anyone would be a perfect person. Some people even pretend to be perfect but see, everyone has flaws. I feel that a lot depends on your will power also, if your will power is very strong and you are very consistent towards someone or you show a lot of dedication towards something then things change a lot in your life.
Look where you were born, what kind of parents you had, and how you are now, what kind of friends you had,what religion you belong to all these things matter a lot to develop your thinking and your morals. What kind of people you associate with matters a lot and as you grow up your understanding also keeps on developing.
These are all the things that matter and perhaps you too must have experienced all these things. Imagine if you were born in some other country and you knew some other language, then perhaps your thinking would have been different. Or if the religion you follow right now was not your religion but some other religion, then perhaps you would have thought differently. So overall, many things depend on your development.
so you cannot hold a single reason responsible for it.as I grew older and wiser, living life and having experience in different aspects of life, I began to unlearn some understanding I had about mora ls and started to learn morals over again. But some things haven't changed because they were both true before and still true today so I just live by them on an autopilot, no faking them.
Morals can vary according to where one learns them, especially from upbringing. A lot of people are living by what they have been taught right from childhood and never questioned why some things are the way they are and why they must keep up some morals. This is why a lot are living by the moral standing they had from childhood.
Personally, I was like that until I gained admission to the university to actually make decisions for myself, relate with new people and build connections around. All that experiences were a test to what I believed as my moral standing and over time, I understood that some morals I held too strong must change and some will never do.
In the end, I think my moral values come from the foundation my father gave me and the way I was raised, also I have learned some through my experiences. I think everything happens for a good reason and it guided me from childhood until today.
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