As a married man, no matter how much you love your wife, there are some things you need to keep a secret from her.
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Do not let her know your worth financially
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Keep your family matters away from her
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Never let them know your weakness
The number 1 on my list is important, it is okay for your wife to know that you have money but never let her know exactly how much you are worth, you can never know your partner completely no matter how long you have been together...
When the love is hot, you will be tempted to discuss everything with her but that is the mistake most men make because people change, people who divorce used to be lovers, but time changes their feelings so anything could happen.
Take good care of your wife and get her things she needs but do not let her know what you are worth because she might not appreciate the little you do again and would want more especially if you are worth a lot and in the case of feelings fading, such a mistake can cause you a lot, there are proofs on the internet as men are losing their properties and money to someone who didn't work for it with them after divorce, so be wise.
When it comes to keeping your family matters away from her, I mean your father, mother, and siblings, if you are the breadwinner of your family and the one sponsoring the rest, it is bad to tell your wife the things you did for your family, that may cause disrespect or even make her feel you are spending too much for your family and hence the reason why she is getting less, so if you give your family anything or discuss things with your family, it is not her business and you don't need to gist her about it.
Lastly, never let your partner know your weakness, there are good and bad moments in every relationship, so don't tell them something that they can use to hurt you when they are angry, anger is a destructive spirit and even if they later regret their actions, the deed has been done and a broken egg can never be whole again.
Back to the Hive Naija prompt of a Joint account with my partner, it is a bad idea if that is the only account I am using and have no other accounts, I mean I can never put my life savings in a joint account with my partner, the first reason is that there would be no peace of mind based on certain things that can happen.
What if she gets scammed? I have seen cases where people get scammed of their money by scammers, what if she falls into the wrong hands and they withdraw all the money in the account? or what if she falls in love with another person and runs away with my money, do not tell me that I don't trust my wife because there are many cases like that!
Lastly, She knows what is in the account, she can withdraw at will which is not good for the family, So the only reason I would do a joint account is if I will only put my spare money there and not my entire life savings!
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