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There is this one thing that everyone should know you can't change anyone, When you know the person habits or character doesn't suit you, then let the person go . A very bug mistake is intending to change him/her. You can't change anyone unless he/she has decided to change. It's is a personal job not for anyone to do , when he/she is not your child that you are just raising.
I wonder what some people take Marriage to be, well I don't seems to be too surprised when a lot of relationships out there are based on financial needs, even guys date some girls bcos of their fame ,all they see in this relationship is money and fame, which is why we are seeing a lot of rubbish in marriage on social media today.
Marriage is a lifetime things and you think you can manage that partner your whole life, or you think you are going to change him/her later in the marriage? Marriage should be acceptance not correction, He/she cannot change.
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A Nigeria comedian Artist,OluwaDollar is now trending on social media Because his wife came out on social media, declaring she is no longer interested in their relationship. What caused this??? All she could say is that her husband is not just a cheater but a chronic cheater to the extends that she can never allow her lil sis to stay with them because he surely will want to go down with her,another reason is he is an addict gambler even when they are struggling to make ends meet, he sold his car in mention that they would use it to pay up their debts but instead he later lost it to gambling. She make mention of alot of atrocity and bad behavior he has.
Now, the question is didn't she notice the signs while they are dating?? She definitely sees some but she ignore due to he has started making some face in industry even when she had another person she was dating before, he dropped the person and went for this guy,dollar. She was hoping the future will be bright and look over his bad attributes. Little sis she know that there is no future for them ,she didn't get money ,just only useless fame from those rubbish content they do. She has spent all her life and earnings in that marriage,hoping it will later pay up but didn't. She is now regretting.
"Go for the bag" is not a bad idea but you should also ba bale to go for the behaviors and characters as well because if you go for the mad man bcos of money, you might end up not getting a penny before you get bitten up to death or you get the money and spend it in heaven, some are enjoying the bag alongside with deadly abuse.
Shine your face before going into marriage, marriage is not a school because some do say it's a school,you do graduate from school but marriage is a lifetime, even if you quit, you are once married and that's forever name
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