Double dating! Can there be a justifiable reason for it? I ask myself this question over and over again. Do people have a good reason for it? Because the more I read and try to understand people, the more they bring up points to justify their actions, which then led me to this final question.
If the love is real, would there be a reason for a person to double date?
Now, listen to me. Where there is love, I don't believe there should be a reason to have the fear of your partner leaving you for someone else. The prompt topic for #hive-reachout is a very interesting one.
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What do you think about double dating? Is it something we should embrace due to the fear of heartbreak or is it something that we all should avoid? Tell us what you think and support it with your reasons.
One of the reasons people choose double dates is because of the benefits they get from the other person. Sometimes, it can be a financial benefit, which most ladies are fond of doing; it can be because of physical attraction, which many men are guilty of. It can be anything but it all boils down to getting something from the other person. This is not true love; once that benefit is over, the infatuation in that sailing ship will crumble because what both parties are enjoying from each other is no longer available.
When it comes to double dating, it will surely complicate things and potentially lead to misunderstandings or uncomfortable situations. Trust will be broken and communication between the couples will reduce, which will eventually lead to a breakup.
The idea of me sharing my woman with another man is against everything I believe in. How would you feel if you learned that your man or woman, whom you trust so much, is seeing someone else and doing everything you consider special moments with another person? It can break a person mentally and cause damage to their health.
While many people might argue that "double dating is a medium to avoid heartbreak," my question is, why are you in a relationship that you fear might fail? Why are you giving your best for something you have no hope for? Why are you staying with something you doubt? Many people are double dating because of all these things and why are they in a relationship where the love is not true?
I will answer that they are in it because of what they get from it and they are only there with the hope of finding someone better someday, and that is not a relationship but a situationship.
If you have something you want to ask or a contribution you would like to make, my comment is open for all. Thanks for reading.
My name is Fashtioluwa.
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