This week's topic is really interesting.
Actually, I'm not the type of person who keeps friends. There are chances that when you have certain categories of friends around you, it's either they lure you into doing something you don't want to, or you change them, but the probability of you changing them might be low, especially when your friends are highly educated in a bad way.
I once felt the love of a true friend, but that was years back, and ever since then, it seems like friends are impossible to make for me. I can a talk mate, but not a true friend, I just don't feel that connection.
Some of the most important qualities I look for before making a friend are:
trustworthiness.
selflessness.
For me, these two qualities are very important because they can determine how far your friend can go for you.
And I just can't deal with a selfish friend. If my friend is selfish, then what's the point of becoming friends? It will still be like I have no friends at all. And at some point, I will be upset with my decision of becoming friends with such person.
I hate keeping friends who never think of another person's well-being. they can't help in a worst situation, they just want something from you and give nothing.
I see friendship as a bond that can't be broken by any means, but if the habit of selfishness, jealousy and sense of betrayal comes in, then that bond is likely to be broken.
I have encountered so many people who want to be close to me, but that simple, selfish and self-centered character in them also chases me away from them.
Thank you for reading.
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