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What I Learned When I Faced the Fear That Controlled Me

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Fear is one of those emotions that we all feel and it is a very Universal 1 but at the same time it is having amazing capability that it can have on impacting the decisions that we make and also can be a very big reason to grow doubt within our own mind and it is always going to be trying to be making us do the safer things to just stay away from a potential harm but from that it is something that is always going to be making a feel caged within our own self.

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It is really a very strong emotion and many a times it becomes very hard to overcome which is why it become something that we do become powerless in front of most of the times and that is why it is always something that is getting so much of praise from people when their actually able to come ahead of it in the end of it all which is something that is very much talked about and discuss in many ways as well.

When we are actually able to come across it and overcome what we fear the most, we particularly feel that we are Fearless and there is possibly nothing let we cannot do, and also there is everything that we can conquer, and that definitely happens just because we can do the exact opposite of what we fear.

There has been such a similar moment in my life as well where I truly felt actually completely Fearless and it was not something that involves a lot of thrill seeking sports activities such as Skydiving or something but it was actually much more meaningful for me because I personally have been struggling with low confidence all my life and it was something that got so deeply rooted within myself that I always felt very scared to be doing public speaking which was something that was actually a very big problem for me.

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Public speaking has always been one of those things that I have been trying to avoid at all cost and whenever I was allowed to be doing something like that I always used to be trying to figure out away that can help me Escape from doing this activity and just trying to the away from it and avoiding it as a whole because it always use to make me feel very much scared and I was very under confident to be just facing a few people in front of me.

It has been something that has been existing within myself for a really long period of time and there was one day when I was handed over a responsibility of delivering a just a simple and short speech in front of around 100 people in my school itself and as my previous experience is as well I tried to just find an escape from it but that point of time I was not actually able to find that escape which was something that I felt even more scared of because it was and unfortunate event that I felt myself to be in.

And then forcefully I had to just go into the stage and have to just deliver the speech even at that point of time I thought of backing out by giving out some sort of reason or something that could actually be helping me get away from the situation but it was something that never happened and that point of time my heart was beating very rapidly and I could actually feel my nervousness within my own self and I was not able to keep a straight face as well.

And then just buy gathering a little bit of courage I started to speak the script that was given to me and just after a couple of words it started to feel a little bit comfortable for me and I just kept on reading from the script and later on it became very natural for me and I even notice people listening to me and also giving some small nodes and smile which was something that was actually making me feel even better and all of that became something that was like a positive energy for me rather than the anxiety that I was carrying.

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At that point of time I truly realise that it was something that was just a fear which I was giving it control of to be making me impact in the way it is willing do and if I take back that control even with force then it can no longer impact me and that is something which I learned and it was something that was a much needed experience for me because after that I actually felt a very strong sense of transformation within my own self as I was able to conquer the biggest fear that I had for a really long period of time and it actually went very naturally and smoothly.

It was a very big moment for me in my life because I actually managed to overcome my own fear, which I had within myself. After all, it always had a very strong sense of impact on me. After all, it changed the definition of Peer for me because I dared to face them with myself, and also later on, overcoming them with my own strength and effort, which is something that I was not even able to think back in the day.


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