it's usually said family that prays together stays together, it's no news that we all are product of our various family upbringing, because our dad, mom and our siblings were the first humans we came across and it's also a fact that children usually began learning from home trying to emulate their parents and whatever he or she sees around, that's why first of all we are all product of our environment family and friends, cause that's the first point of learning.
the foundation of any human is the family, the way everyone behaves tells you the kind of family or environment they come from, whatever character traits or personality anybody adopts comes from these factors because they are the first force of influence Growing up.
if a child finds his or her self in a family were there is love, care and attention, the child will grow up with good self confident, abilities and good self esteem and control, compare this to a child who grew up in a family were the opposite is the cases that child will grow up feeling timid, low self esteem, shy and totally lost of who he or she is, these affects psychology more than anything because the family forms these child's first impression of who he or she is.
family bonds is a great way to keep the family ties stronger, there was a time my friend was in a great mess, the kind that could make a person go crazy but then the only thing that I know sustained him was his family, there was a friend he has that was always there to lend some emotional support and comfort, on the other hand there was a time I too experienced a severe midlife crisis that was the same time someone who claims to be with me decided to leave, I know how turn-apart I was, that I didn't run mad that period was God.
the point is, there are times when all you need is just that assurance of love , care and attention from someone you call family, there is a level of assurance and comfort that comes with it, because some time the reality of life is when you're wealthy you tend to have a lot of friends and admirers compared to when you're down, that's when you realise the importance of family who never left always there.
family bonding has a lot to do in a person's life obviously our society really do not stress more about this, that simple call or text to check up on your brother, sister, mom or dad, a close friend or anybody you truly care about goes a long way to revive their spirit and let them know that someone out there truly cares, this simple acts strengthens the ties that bonds and unites.
simple acts like spending quality time together, having heart to heart discussions. playing games, hangouts, picnic, seeing movies, all these and many more ways strengthens the bonds....
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