the truth is, life was designed in such a way there are male and female, so that means for every male there is a female companion and vice versa. the hardest part however is finding that perfect match meant for you...
I read quite some entries and I can say every body has their opinion and the reason why they choose, for me I'll choose to be in a relationship, like I said we were designed to be in twos, I love being single tho, but then I've also tasted the sweet side of love and what it does to a person emotionally, psychologically, financially and otherwise. there is this comfort you get, like a piece of mind, when you're with the right person, everything fits perfect and life is wonderful filled with endless bliss.
the reason for that is, when you're overwhelmed, burned out, there is always someone you can fall back on, somewhere at the back of your mind you know there is that one person who understands you perfectly well enough.
being single has it good effects too, you're focused, you can channel your energy right, you have a straightforward thinking pattern, compared to being in a relationship where every decision you make must come with some consideration, knowing that your actions or inactions will either have direct or indirect effects on your partner, so it's not just you but also considering the feeling of another person which sometimes can hinder your fast decision making process.
time is the ultimate factor here, ofcourse there are moments and times you just want to be alone, there are also times you wish so bad to be in the warm arms of the very person you love and who loves you back, that closure is a whole lot, in between this two feeling, there is that time you want so badly to become fulfilled in your life's essence, call it purpose or destiny just whatever that draws your out.
the beauty of life is that you find someone that completes and compliments you, no one is an island, somehow we're incomplete that's why no matter what, there will come a time you wish to be with your own, a greater version of you, someone that brings you peace love and comfort, someone that aligns with your life's essence, now chasing that essence together is the sweetest feeling under the sun.
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