All my life I've always wanted to do so much more I've always wanted to push up advance but the truth is I've never had the chance or privileges that aids me to it, its always been a struggle, honestly speaking I wish I can do more but always feel limited, due to lack of available resources
But then I had to make do with I have still nurturing the mindset believing definitely that some day I will get to the point were its all available, I know that I will have all I need to be able to but then even tho I lack the necessary tools and equipment and support I still keep my mind fixed and focused on the goal, this is how I grow intentionally.
For instance three or more years ago when I was introduced to hive, immediately I caught the understanding of what this is all about and how I can excel and do exceedingly well with my creative writings and all that I can do to express myself on hive I was blown away looking for a support with a good phone, then I was struggling with an-almost-dead battery phone, very slow, and less functionality but I was still able to create a post with it, so I was managing but it was hard for me cause of certain things I couldn't do, I dearly needed a good phone so I can be and do more on hive, years later this had been a very huge struggle, my post was not getting the needed attention cause of I was not able to access certain platforms and certain things I could not do, so this was a struggle between knowing what to do and not being able to do.
I reached out to almost everyone I knew could help even if it was a form of a loan cause I was certain hive rewards could finance the budget but no body was able to or willing to help out, I till held on to what I believed, till it got to the point were I could not take it anymore, I have to sale off my very important equipment to add up to my savings to get a good phone and to bounce back fully on hive ....
And it was possible and its now my reality...
The essence of these post is to remind you to stand up dust off yourself and head on that course, still expecting help or some succor from anyone you might unfortunately be disappointed, having these mindset in you will help you not to rely or hope or depends on any one, that means you to take up responsibility for yourself and your life's outcome, manned up your gate and take on from were you left off.
One of the facts that helped me stay up is that I just had to accept it as a fact and a reality that everyone is in one battle or struggle to another , everyone's trying their best to live and have a good life, so now depending or waiting for them to come through for me is like telling them to abandon their own pursuit in life to aid mine which is very likely not possible, so I don't blame anybody for anything that goes wrong in my life, my destiny is in my hands and I'm responsible for me and all that happens cause I know "No Body Is Coming To Save Me".
I would say stop being expectant on people , stop hoping and relying on promises of what you were told, this is the cure to wave off disappointments and to take full responsibility for you and your life's outcome.
just this evening i was having this conversation with an aunt who looked at me and said just do it, you have so much untapped potentials in you but your ways are not straight, you have so many things you're chasing at a time, you have to focus on one and begin, initiate the process before help is likely to come, stop looking for this and that, gather what is necessary and begin, figure everything out as you go, but by all means initiate the process
The hard reality is that the more you wait the more time sleeps away from you and the more you might likely be disappointed so do like me, while they promise and promise you begin to workout and do what you can with what you have achive whatever results you can, this will make you feel fulfilled atleast better than waiting wasting time and being disappointed in the end.
No Body is coming to save you, you save your self, this is life's realest truth.
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