In this era people have made relationships more like a fun thing or some kind of time pass cause the way people move from one person to another is insane
We have normalised it way too much like people don't even think twice before getting into a relationship with the kind of person who've just ruined their perfect relationship and had no impact on themselves like it meant nothing
We all know this generation isn't serious about anything, it's all fun and games - until it comes to the part where they're getting divorced.
That's where we draw the line cause divorce is a serious thing and I know people are really afraid when they hear about it
At times like this when relationships are like "divorce me" on every little situation like it has become so easy to ask for a divorce
Especially when you've kids, you think about their future and all like anything but divorce
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When it comes to divorce that thing ruins more than one life.. it is father, mother, kids the whole family gets teared up
And no one can fixes that no matter what you do or try.
It breaks a child confidence while parents go on to war with themselves.
There's also a trend in divorce because once you gets divorced you eventually gets 50% of husband wealth
So that thing has set up an easy to get away with money
Which we have seen happening with celebrities or rich people like they get married for a while and suddenly we'll hear about them getting divorced and wife getting that part of wealth
But why would anyone want to go that low in life?
Relationship meant with the sole purpose of getting a part of someone's wealth is a big L but there's a lot more wrong going in this world, it just doesn't surprise me anymore.
In the both cases whether the divorce is based on the fact that the relationship is toxic or someone just doesn't want to be together cause they met someone and now they'll walk away with half of wealth
In these cases in the family I've seen kids suffering while their parents move on with their life like nothing happened
It makes sense in a lot of situations where you've to opt for divorce but if there's no such necessary situation than the forced divorce makes everything quite difficult for kids
If there was some issues between parents than the kids itself would understand and stick to either mom or father whoever is right at that moment and I've seen most will prefer to stay with mom.
Wrapping Up...
In the end it's always your own decision while you choose your partner and when you decide to part ways, there's very few rare cases where parents still forced you to marry someone they've choose for you
Otherwise the whole world choose and decide their partners for themselves and when you do have kids
It is better to not ruin their lives cause no one deserves that kind of life without parents or growing up in a broken family.
I guess you do understand my point of view and would love to know what's your thoughts are about it in the comments.
fin.
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