The one thing I'm afraid of relationships is that it becomes toxic most of the time and that toxic relation hurts like hell, yet many people stick to each other after all that mental torture.
I just think it's better to stay away from all this and protect your mental health in times like this when mostly it's made relationships just "hookup" culture thing.
So that's where all toxicity starts, people are with each other for personal benefits instead of respecting relationship, they'll do everything to make it look bad.
I've seen some people in real life who are in that kind of toxic relation, mostly married because after marriage you're like trapped and are bound with each other.
When it gets toxic, you just can't leave that person as it's in our society "divorce" is a bad thing and that's every woman biggest fear when they're married.
So what most people in society suggest to that toxic married couple will be: Have kids.
Like seriously, instead of getting rid and saving yourself.. your family or relatives are going to recommend having kids cause that'll become solution.
It won't fix it
I mean if you really think having a kid in those situation is a solution... You're so wrong, cause if a person ain't treating you good and respecting that relation without kids
After having that, it'll make it only worse
And that's why there's saying some people don't even deserve to be called parents cause they've not only ruined each others life but kids too are now victim.
I am 22 and away from all these relationships thing, ain't not interested in girlfriend or having any crush
But I used to be at some point some years ago (2021) and had to break up because it was just too toxic like having those fights for no reasons
I was trying to focus on work and had so many responsibilities during those days.. given much time wasn't easy but still I did but when she wanted more of that time and it wasn't possible... It became another argument
So like if you can't understand each other and just want to fight.. doesn't make sense to stick with each other.
Ended all that for my and her peace, focused on life and getting better. Now I know when will be the right time to get into a relation...and this time it'll be simply getting married cause that's what I want in next 5 years
And that's mostly how nowadays toxic relationships are, either of them won't listen or understand others perspective and just going to want more and more of your time and attention
The moment you stop doing that or are struggling with life, they'll just call you crap.
Wrapping Up...
So, it's just better to focus on life and set those priorities straight for yourself instead of being with someone toxic.
It's just sad how some people struggle for years in toxic relations just because they think that person will become better eventually
But it doesn't happen and it won't so why even make your life worse. it's just how I've seen things with others and myself so I shared my opinion and would love to know what's your thoughts are about it in the comments.
fin.
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