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Parental value and thoughts

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Parents are known as the divine gift for children. There is no doubt that they are our well-wishers. They take care of us properly, provide us all the necessary facilities, and protect us from danger. Parents are always ready to make sacrifices also for us.

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I think parents should be the most important people for us, and returning them love, care, and respect is a kind of responsibility. Whatever we do, it will not be enough to return them the favor they have done for us because raising a child is not a matter of joke. It's bad to forget about their contribution in our life. We need to remember that they brought us into the world and provided everything to us till we became capable.

Parents always try to do the best for us, and their intention is always positive, but does every time the outcome come out positive? Unfortunately, the answer is no. I can share the best example that happened with many of us. Most of our parents want us to be a doctor or engineer, and having the desire is very natural, as parents want to see us living a good and stable life with good financial backup. Parents insist we choose the professions of doctor or engineer, but not everyone is meant to be a doctor or engineer. I have seen many students choosing such a career because their parents insisted on it, where their interests were different. In such a kind of thing, the parents of this child are not mature enough to make the decision, and they make a decision on behalf of their children. Do you think it's the right thing to do? I don't think so.

It's ok if we are interested in that profession that our parents choose for us. Many of our parents want us to follow their instructions, and it's not fair, in my opinion. Sometimes some parents decide everything for their child and force them to follow it. Many times I have seen ladies forced to get married to a person their parents chose. They even don't bother to ask for the permission of their child, who will live the rest of their life with that person. It's indeed ridiculous.

Let's talk about the little kids. Being curious is very natural for kids, and they are emotional also at the same time. They want to know many things, and sometimes they may irritate parents also. In such a situation, parents scold the kids, and I think it's not the right thing to do, as I had an emotional impact. They are sensitive and observe everything carefully. Whatever the parents do or talk about, they notice it easily. Maintaining a good impression is very important for children.

I know parents want to make the best choice for their child but sometimes their choice becomes torture and brings negative consequences for their child. Parents need to know that children need to grow up and make their own choices. They can help to teach their child how to choose but when it comes to making a decision about life they should need to leave on their child as it's the life of their child.



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