At various ages, people ask themselves if they will continue to live alone or go into a relationship. No one can give you a universal recipe as everyone may have different personalities, objectives, and life experiences. There are some who truly enjoy being single and value the freedom that is part and parcel of being single, and then there are others who find happiness in living with a partner. If I was in a position to be able to choose between the two, I would choose to be in a healthy and meaningful relationship. While there are many benefits of being single, I do feel that having a good relationship brings a lot of companionship, support and growth into life and makes it more fulfilling.
Independence is one of the biggest advantages of being a single. One individual determines the use of his time, money, and energy. They have the freedom to make decisions without needing to seek advice from anybody. They are able to dedicate themselves to their own objectives, educational development, career advancement, travel, and self-development. Singlehood in this day and age can make people free to establish a firm base for the future as much as they want to pursue their dreams.
Single people can also find themselves through being single. People tend to know more about their strengths, weaknesses, interests and values when they are alone. They get used to being alone and gain confidence in themselves. They're great traits to have that can help a person, whether or not they eventually do enter a relationship.
I would still prefer a relationship, however, because I think that people are made to connect. All of us want love, understanding and companionship. Friends and family can be crucial in the life of someone but it is different having a life partner who can be so close and constant in life. A loving relationship fosters a bond that can be comforting and joyful in both good and challenging times.
One thing that I love about relationships is the emotional support that I get. It's not easy being the human being. We all have difficult times, setbacks, disappointments, failures, and even times we are unsure. During such times, having someone who genuinely cares about your well-being can make a significant difference. A proactive partner can cheer you on when you are discouraged, celebrate your successes when they happen and be there when life gets tough. If a person does have faith in you, then you will be able to carry on.
Another one of the reasons why I would select a relationship is because it promotes personal development. When most think about relationships, they consider just love and romance, but they also learn numerous things about life. Patience, communication, trust, understanding and compromise are key factors of a healthy relationship. It forces the person to think outside the box by thinking about how they would feel or need the same person would feel or need. These experiences can foster greater maturity, responsibility and emotional intelligence in individuals.
I also am thankful for the concept of developing a future with somebody. It's nice to have same dreams, goals and plans. From starting a family to building a home, traveling the world and more, these moments can be more meaningful if shared with someone you love. Collaborating on shared objectives can foster a connection between two individuals and a sense of shared purpose and partnership.
It is, however, not to be forgotten that not all relationships are healthy. An unhealthy or hurtful relationship can cause stress, pain and unhappiness. In these cases, it's really better to be single. That's one of the reasons I wouldn't settle for a relationship just to be in one. I would look for a relationship based on respect, trust, honesty, loyalty and caring. A healthy relationship should be one in which both parties feel valued, supported and respected.
I think that a relationship should not consume an individual. Both people should work toward their goals and interests even though living with a partner. The best relationships are the ones where the two people are growing together; where they are both developing.
To wrap up, there are pros and cons of being single or in a relationship. The single person can enjoy freedom, independence and opportunities for self-discovery. But, if I had to make a choice, I would stick with a healthy and meaningful relationship. A healthy relationship adds richness and reward to life through companionship, emotional support, personal development and shared experiences. Ideally, I want to have a relationship, but I want it to be on the basis of love, trust, respect, and helping each other to be better people. This can make any moment special and make life more enjoyable and meaningful.
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