Balancing communication, to me, simply means making a conscious effort to stay connected with the important people in my life — even when things get really busy or overwhelming. Life can be so hectic sometimes, between personal responsibilities, school, work, and even just trying to find a little time for myself. But I honestly believe that relationships are like plants: if you don’t water them, they slowly wither away. That’s why I always try to be intentional about keeping the connection alive, even if it's just through small gestures.
One thing I’ve come to understand is that communication doesn’t always have to be this big thing. Sometimes, it’s just a quick “How are you?” text, a funny meme sent randomly, a short voice note, or even just reacting to someone’s status to let them know, “Hey, I see you, and I’m thinking about you.” Little things like that really go a long way in keeping relationships intact, especially when it’s hard to meet in person.
When it comes to balancing communication with everything else going on in life, I try not to wait for the so-called “perfect time” because, honestly, it rarely ever comes. Instead, I try to slot in moments wherever I can — maybe when I’m free in the hostel, during breaks, or even late at night when I’m winding down for the day. It doesn’t have to be anything long or fancy; just reaching out for a few minutes can make a big difference.
To be honest, I’m not really the "calling type" of person. It’s not that I don't care, it’s just not naturally my first instinct to pick up the phone and call people. Most times, I don’t even call my siblings regularly except for one of my older sisters who usually calls me first, and then we’ll have a chat. However, I do make the effort to call my mum from time to time, just to hear her voice and check up on her. Those small conversations mean a lot, and they usually happen on weekends when I’m freer and less likely to be interrupted by classes or other activities.
Weekends are actually my best time to catch up with people properly because I’m not rushing or multitasking. I can sit down, have longer conversations, and not feel like I have to cut the call short because of something urgent.
Like I said earlier, I try to find time for the people I truly care about. I’ve also learned that not every relationship needs to be actively maintained all the time. Some friendships and bonds are strong enough to survive even with little communication, but still, I try to prioritize the relationships that really matter. It’s very easy to get caught up trying to keep up with everyone, but experience has taught me that it’s better to focus on deep, meaningful connections than to spread myself too thin. For me, it’s definitely about quality over quantity.
At the end of the day, I see communication as one of the purest ways we show love, respect, and presence. No matter how busy life gets, making that little bit of time — even if it’s just sending a quick message — reminds the people we love that they are important to us. And honestly, beyond all the hustle and daily struggles, it’s the human connections we maintain that really make life richer and more fulfilling.
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