I like celebrating people when I can, I believe it shows them how special they are to me. Right now I owe certain people in my life birthday presents, but then again, I love it when I can make them smile because of their special day. Celebration for me comes for a reason and this reason does not include birthdays and that is why I do not celebrate myself. If I am going to be celebrating my birthday for any reason, it would be because that year something spectacularly out of the ordinary happened for me to celebrate life.
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My birthday scares me, it reminds me of how old I am getting and the tons of things I am yet to do. This realization makes me sober and that is why I always ask for quiet moments during my birthday. I see it as a time to reflect on how the year has been for me and then make new decisions that have the potential of changing my life. It is also a time I set new goals and make resolutions with the hope that the next birthday is even better. I will only celebrate after reflecting and discovering I am in a better place than I was a year ago.
The level of growth I have made would determine the level of celebration. From buying myself something special to inviting friends to celebrate. I have never intentionally invited friends to celebrate with me except the time I would never forget when my girlfriend gave me a surprise birthday celebration. She’s very good with those kinds of plans unlike me lol. Apart from that day, I have never really called people to celebrate with me for any birthday at all. But when it comes to celebrating with others, I would prefer to sit, plan and try to do something nice. But in a really long while I have been restrained from doing such, guess I need to start again lol.
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