The life of a woman is one beautiful part of life that I find so fascinating, even as a woman. Every single person on earth has a beautiful and fascinating thing to add to the world but this write up is dedicated to women alone for today.
I am a woman and I want to believe I don't have all the knowledge of the things I should know as regards to how I should act, look, speak or even walk as a woman. These are things I just find myself learning one at a time as I grow older.
From my studies over time, I've come to realize that the success of women are almost totally tied to the man she marry, the children she bare and the family who raised her. While all that may be still true today, there has been a lot of difference.
Today, a responsible woman goes beyond how she cares for her family or career. For single ladies, it's not wrong to hope for marriage so you can feel responsible as the world tend to make women who are aging feel. But there's a lot more.
One of the beautiful things I've learned about life, marriage and commitments is, we don't need another person whether as a spouse or business partner to find out if we want to go into such a journey. We have to first decide and then commit.
So from that perspective, a responsible woman is one who have learned and understood her identity as a woman, her purpose in life that doesn't necessarily rely on another to succeed. She makes her decision from a place of stability.
A responsible woman is committed to her personal growth, influencing people around her to grow too. She is confident in what she knows and open to learn what she doesn't know yet. She attracts respects, she doesn't command for it.
Whatever is placed in the care of a responsible woman is safe, cared for and made to grow. She's not without fear but she laughs at whatever may be coming because she has her confidence in the plans and systems she has made to work.
A responsible woman adapts, shows humility, dresses well and doesn't need the validation from others because she already knows how valuable she is. A responsible woman takes care of everything that is in her control and let go of what is not in her control, for her own peace of mind.
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