Just like I always say, I always love writing on hive because it easier when I talk about my personal experiences so that I won't lack words to describe the way I feel...and thank God my life is s story everyday....
Today, I will be discussing on;
Have you ever felt so pained by a betrayal? Was it from your best friend, partner, family or someone else? How did you handle the situation and are you still in contact with the person?
Betrayal is something that will happen as far as we are in this world and we have good relationships with people... They must always be someone to betray someone.... I'm going to share with us my first share of betrayal and how I was able to fix it...
I am a kind of person that is very reserve right from the very beginning, I don't always keep relationships and friendships especially with girls because of its drama accompanied with it, I always have either 3 friends or 2, in this case I had just one friend here... She was my everything, she loved me and I loved her two.
Ómór, our friendship was incomparable, she was always ready to fight for me, the only problem I had was that her twin sister didn't like me for some reasons best known to her. All of us were classmates but she was in science class with her twin sister while I was in art class. People always call her my hand bag because we were always seen everywhere..
Her senior sister was my school Mother and I felt loved after surrounding with the people that loved me....
But something happened that I didn't really understand why it had to happen... Sophia was her name, and she was the only person that knew I had a secret dairy, she was the only person that had space key to my locker and box she was the only person that knew about my life.... And I trusted her with my life..
One day, I left the hostel perfectly fine because I was supposed to write jamb the next day, I went home and all thought about was how to write jamb and pass I never knew something else was waiting for me....
I wrote my exams that Friday and returned back to the hostel just to find out that my box and locker were open.... My girl was sitting innocently by her corner and I didn't understand, none of classmates talked to me and I met my box turned upside down while I checked, my diary was gone.
I then realized that I was done for. I went to my friend to ask what happened, but her twin shout me out and told me to leave her sister out of this mess. I felt terribly bad that my only friend could sell me out.
I had so many things I told her from my classmates mouth, while they made jest and mockery of me 😭🥲🥺 I knew how broken I was in my ss3 third term and of all these things happened when I wanted to write my NECO exams and as a result of this, I losed concentration and I had a bad results....
I confronted Sophia and asked her why she did what she did, and she told me the pressure was too much, everyone just wanted to know why we were so close and all of that especially her twin sister...
She told me she didn't mean to betray me that way... Kaiiiiiiiiiiiiii, I felt so much pain and heartache because I knew how much I trusted my girl.
Throughout our stay for NECO exams I didn't talk to any of my classmates that were in the hostel... The mess was too much for me, they were able to find out so much about me through my dairy and I hated it so much....
That was were I learned how to keep grudges and malice, that was when I learned how to cut people off immediately especially those once that hurt me and I can't easily forget... I wanted to establish a long standing relationship were it can last.... But the relationship ended immediately we finished our graduation. I handled the situation so bad that it affected me.... We lost contacts and that was it.
Just so you know, I don't like ending friendships or relationship on a bad path, I took it upon myself to apologize to her and she on her own path was happy she could apologize to me too... Now we are still in contact after a long time, we can still see each other and greet.... Writing about this has made me miss her sooooo much ❤️
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