Hello friends of this community; One of the things I have learned in life is that you cannot cling to the past, and at the same time expect a different future to move forward, you have to learn to say “goodbye” and this happens with everyone in relationships, at work, and yes, when you walk away from someone you will inevitably feel nostalgic, but many times you don't miss the person themselves so much, but rather the feeling you had when you were with them.
The problem is that if you confuse nostalgia with love you can end up returning to a place that is no longer yours, the truth is that letting go will never, ever be easy, we will always wonder if we are doing the right thing, there will always be fear, there will always be doubts, but the key question here is “am I staying because I want to or because I am afraid to leave?”
Letting go of the known is always scary, even if we know that there is something better waiting for us, when I left my job to give the same example I wondered if it had really been a good idea to take the risk, but after 3 years I can say that yes, it was, if I had not taken that step today I would not be where I am, you cannot move forward without letting go, you cannot stay in one place and at the same time expect your life to change, you have to choose and choosing inevitably means leaving something behind because of that.
You have to commit to that choice, you can't play on both sides at the same time that only leads to self-deception and getting trapped in a cycle of doubt, of meaningless regret, so at this moment, if you feel like you need to move on, listen to yourself, because only your heart knows if the time to leave has really come and you know it, maybe you still don't know how to move on, maybe you still have a hard time letting go, but within you you already have the answer and when nostalgia, doubt or sadness comes, remember your Purpose, remember why you made that decision, that has to be bigger than fear because that certainty is what will sustain you when everything else seems to falter.
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