There are a lot of invisible things around us that have a very big impact on a lot of things within our surroundings and that is what makes them quite specialist well because there are those things which we can't even see but there impact is felt and that is what makes them very much special as well. Gravity is one of those things which pulls us down as well as the air that we can't even see is one of the reasons why we are still alive and just like that there are a lot of things that has a lot of impact on us with their present even if we can't even see them and them been invisible.
There is also another thing that we can't see, and that invisible force has made a lot of impact in my lif,e any influenced a lot of thing,s and made my life shape in such a manner that is something which I have still not understood complete, ly ly going to be expectations. It has been something that I have continuously wondered about quite a lot in the recent few years until I understood the main aspect about it.
Eversense I was a child there has been a lot of things which I have been thinking about quite a lot and those are the Expectations that people have from me even if they haven't told that to me personally but still I feel those things are the ones which we are expected to do regardless just like as a student I am expected to do well in my class and I am also expected to be a well manual child in front of my parents and these are the things that we often just learn on the way and nothing is told to us.
But just like that as we grow up there are a lot of things that add up into this list and other same time people start to have expectations from US and based on that we do a lot of things that we might have never done if those expectations from other people or other things were its not existing. There are a lot of things that people will not say out loud but I the same time we are going to take the hints and try to do the best from our side and there are a lot of things that we try to do not just because we want to be excellent in that particular as but surely because we don't want to be disappointing in that field.
These invisible Expectations have definitely started from our own cell because we often think about the fact that we should be doing this by now as well as we should have done what actually demanded out of the situation and we should have done what people thought we would be doing and this should factor is something that forces as to do a lot of things and these Expectations are invisible but surely definitely have a lot of weight with them.
But after a while I started to realise that these are things that are actually not demanded from US and might actually our harming us much more and that is when I realize that Expectations definitely are impacting my self quintal lot and force me to do things that I might have never done and then is win I actually what about because I was seeing a disconnect between my actual things that I want to do anything that I am doing and from that monument onwards about the expectations and its existence in my life and the impact that it is having.
Today I am still trying to get myself away from these invisible Expectations and it is something that has definitely to a lot of effort from my side because I know try to convince my mind that I might not be doing things as per want other people might expect from me and this thought is something that we need to drop completely and that is what I am doing as well I am surely that has helped me quite a lot.
All in all this invisible force of Expectations has been around with me for quite a very long period and has its fare fare of impact on my life but it is something that I am thinking about quite a lot and not blindly following it and picking the one which I feel are right to be ping and dropping the ones which I feel I having negative impact on myself and that is how it has been something that has made good and bad in the end for me and other than completely controlling me in some way or the other.
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