Sometimes life is not always on our side, and that is because life generally is not for everyone to win, but instead we bring some and lose some. In the reality of life, it has been said I noticed that practically most of the people have the opportunity to have some good things in life happen either by merit or by being able to prove themselves to be worthy of the character they possess. Sometimes we want something to happen in the way we want and eventually will find out that it is not going just the way we planned it to be, and the only thing for us to do then is just to dance around the tune and ahead of the next phase coming.
Come to think of it in this way. Not everyone in our life deserves to be in it, and that is because we love everyone equally. And the certain thing is that you will surely place priority on people over the other. Now imagine someone getting to know that this is surely happening; it will feel so bad, but the only choice is just to move on and carry on because that is life, and it is bound to happen. We see some cases where a lady and a guy would be friends, and the relationship between the both parties might be mutual depending on them.
Along the line, they might eventually think or know that the love they have for one another is deeper than each other. One of them might like the other person deeply and genuinely, but the other person may just like them based on just the friendship level and nothing more. Well, I am not saying this to judge but just to make a point that life is not always balanced, and we don't get to get everything we want, just as we want it.
I have a long time friend, and we have been so close for so long, and one thing about being friends with someone for so long is that you get to know a lot about them. The things they like doing and the things they love that give them joy, and also you are used to their kind of lifestyle. But on the other hand, do you have any friends that do not know anything about you, and you guys have been friends for so long? This other person is not really into you but just wants to be friends with you because of some benefits or advantages they get from you.
I could remember a day I called my friend, and I asked her about some things that I believe practically she should know better, and then it was very bad that she could not provide the right answer to the question I asked, and I, on the other side, can easily predict and say something that she can do even without being in the same place at the same time. But what do I have to do about that? That does not stop us from being friends, and that does not stop us from being partners; it's just that I know where I stand, and I know my level. We started accepting the fact that we don't get everything we want; the better the life will be.
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