Every day of our lives is always filled with worries and troubles, and that is because that is the nature of what it wants to be. Your ability to make a change now depends on the way and the manner you see everything to be. As a man or as a human generally, when you are doing anything, you really need to be explicit enough and make sure everything you are doing is very clear to both humans and those that are not visible to you because there is always a reason for every step and action we take every day, and one thing that you have to know is that the way people perceive us or interpret anything we see really depends on how we portray each statement we are telling anyone.
So what I'm going to be sharing today is really based on personal experience, which I had last night, and I am not just sharing this because I want to share it. But I believe that there is someone out there that might really want to read this, and who knows, it might help them one way or the other. So I am going to make it as brief as possible so it can be easy for us to read and understand every detail I am sharing.
So last night, it happened that I met a lady sometimes earlier this year, and one thing about us as humans and guys is that there are little opportunities for some guys who don't know how to explore, let me put it that way, and the reason for saying this is that when you do not network and explore, it limits you to just a spot, and when it limits you to a spot, you get refrained in that spot, and everything you do will not pass that range.
So we met, and she proposed to be a friend, and I was not really quite it from the start, but I believe we can network and gain some things from each other. So along the line we became Blues, and we talk almost every day, but then I was not really satisfied because I know no matter how long the conversation might be, it cannot yield anything leading to relationships because I clearly understand that that is what she wants from me, but I am not willing to allow that, but just friends, and I made myself clear.
Now there are annoying parts of the story, and I told her we just have to be friends for now and see where it goes. I never knew she had another intention, and for me to tell her that we should be friends, she already interpreted it as I wanted to benefit from her, and she termed it as a friend with benefits. To cut a long story short, she spoke her mind last night, and I had to clarify things that I never wanted a friend with benefits thing with, but instead, I want to be useful to her life and make her be a better person. But I never knew it was a wrong idea for someone who is desperate to have a relationship with me.
Now it is looking like she wants to blackmail me into asking her out, but I am not sure if that is going to happen. Now the moral lesson of all this is that in anything you do, always make sure that you state yourself clearly before going into anything with anyone, and when I say anything, I mean anything generally. It could be in our place of work among our friends and counterparts. So be safe and be careful.
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