At some point in our lives we really need to be accountable for some things we do. Sometimes we as humans make some moves, and we tie it around making mistakes. It is very fine that every human is meant to make mistakes at some point in their lives, but it is not everything we do that is a mistake because some things are done out of an intentional mindset. Imagine you are doing something you know is very wrong, and yet you still proceed to do it because you think that the person you're doing it to will not eventually find out or the real truth won't be let out.
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Now, let's come to think of it this way. Is it possible you do something for about seven years and yet you call that same thing a mistake? I don't think that is a mistake from my own end because it is something you do for the first time and does not repeat itself again—that is what I count as a mistake but not what you do over again. Because what is the aim of you doing something repeatedly when you know that eventually the truth will be let out? So the case now is that something you call a mistake is not something we keep on doing. That is now something we do intentionally, and we do not care about the repercussion that follows.
So to some people reading this post, they might be wondering why I am talking about this in this post. The reason is I went out to visit a friend this evening, and while I was there, I was listening to a conversation of some people around us like a friend who came around to greet my friend. In this conversation, he stated clearly that his husband has been dating his female friend, who happens to be our best friend for over seven years of their marriage life, and when your husband eventually got caught, he shifted the blame and called it a mistake after you must have impregnated him with a son.
Right where I was sitting down, I was very surprised, annoyed, and furious about why the man would have done such a thing, and the woman made it clear that the man had been dating the woman since the night of their wedding. Wao! This was just what kept saying because I don't even know what to say anymore, and I was just surprised and annoyed because why will you waste someone's life all in the name of cheating? But the main wife has never conceived. This is an issue the wife has been fighting so that she can convince and have a child while the husband has been going out with another woman.
I have always said this to my friends, and I will say it now: once you are doing something and you are not feeling like you are connected to what you are doing again, it's best to leave that thing and not suffer yourself all in the name of you just wanting to keep that thing around. We have seen cases of broken homes and lots of families that broke because one person didn't do the necessary thing. When things are not working and do not look like they are working, it is better for both parties to just rest to let peace reign instead of staying in a toxic relationship. I wish us all the best for those that are not yet in a relationship and for those that are in one; I wish you success.
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