One of the good things of being a real human is being able to have your own peace and not depending on someone to be a source of happiness or your bundle of joy. Genuine happiness comes from within, and this happens when you have been able to derive joy from just your own way of life and not depending on anyone to bring joy to you. Sometimes some people say it is when you have lots of friends around you and you meet different people every day, then you'll be able to get people who are genuinely happy for you, and then from there you will be happy also.
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But I am sorry to disappoint you that being happy does not come from anyone. Well, sometimes we might say that some people drive joy from their parents, and to some people they derive joy from those that generally make them happy, but what happens when these people are not there to make us happy? The only thing left for us is just to be ourselves and to ensure that without these people we are who we are, and we are not relying on anybody or anything whatsoever because genuine happiness is very rare and scarce to come by if you depend on anyone for it.
One of the things I tell people every day is that when you're around people, you learn to filter out those people that are giving you bad energy because these people are those types of people that never see a good thing coming out of whatever you do, and whenever you tell them about your achievement, they tend to become unhappy about it, and these kinds of people can cause damage to our lives. Imagine thinking you have a friend and suitor you can talk to. But at the end of that, the person you think you can talk to me about is the one wrecking havoc in your life. You know that feeling will be so sad?
Another angle is that we can also be the problem to ourselves because we expose things that I meant to be private too much. Imagine you are trying to transition into a new thing, and you expect something good to come out from it, but you are not too sure about it, so you begin to spread this to people whom you are not sure about the good news. This, like this, might never come to manifestation because you have proclaimed it to people even when it is meant to be a hidden secret till it comes to manifestation.
Another angle is that when you are around those who do not genuinely like you, they do everything to make sure they frustrate your efforts, and everything they do to you will be annoying. Even from the way you both hold conversation together, you will feel it that the flow and the connection are missing, and that is because they are not there with a good motive. These days lots of lives are lost because they trusted people too much, and those they trusted made their lives a living hell for them. But what can they do? Nothing because they have made those people the lord over their lives. In whatever you do, try as much as possible to be the lead in whatever you do and not any human.
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