The topic above was taken from the popular old school song of the 1950’s “que sera sera,, whatever will be will be” by Doris day.
Following the weekend engagement, I decided to pick on the topic “plan life or go with flow”. Surely, you should have roughly guessed my take in regards to this topic.
Anytime i come across topics related to life experiences i couldn't help but remember my own story which of course most are traced down to family experiences. Don't worry, I won't bore you with my stories here..you can always find them in my previous post if interested.
My level of understanding about life is quite on neutral ends, in the sense that I wouldn't oppose those who plan life but at same time, I would also support those who go with the flow.
Life so far has never been proven to be borren, those who she favors will call her beautiful, while once she doesn't call her cruel, at last, it remains the fun of her world.
A common statement quotes“ when you fail to plan, you plan to fail”... a wise one indeed. What then happens when your plans fail even after you've planned?
On the other hand, when you sit back and watch it flow, the chances of you being on her good side is 5% in 100.. So now, you're at a greater loss.
In whatever ways a man chooses, he'll always meet a fair fight and his first choice will determine the win. Most times, when we feel we've got this under wraps, it could be at that very moment things get out of hand, and that's states a confirmation that life supersedes the natural and not everything can be within our control.
For me personally, if someone should tell me that I'll be in where I am now as at 9 years ago, I would laugh at the funny joke because it was as at then, impossible. But now, it wasn't just possible but still my reality till this day. I so much believe in hard work accompanied with my imaginary nature but then, I would never underestimate the power of life even though I got my plans and still in my pursuit for a brighter future.
Being accustomed to this mindset, it has helped me in balancing my emotions, so much so that even when I am in a tight phrase, I can still keep calm at least to an extent.
The plans I make so far in my little stay on earth are mostly built on self realization which have slowly developed over time into principles. With these, whatever I set out to do is done with pure diligence and focus, in the sense that I'll give all and then after give myself a score by comparing my previous plans and results even before it's rated, approved or achieved, with this, weather or not my plans comes out fine, it's always congratulations, it's what i call doing your best and leaving the rest but with a clear mind.
With all said, I still strongly stand on the ground that nothing is ever a mistake..whatever that happens has a two face written script already. The result you get is the path of the script you choose.
Whether you take action into your own hands and plan life or you let it flow… the end remains certain “whatever will be will be” was the product of your choice.
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